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What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is an alternative dispute resolution method for couples seeking fair, effective, and inexpensive divorce compared to divorce litigation in Santa Cruz. Mediation comes with reduced emotional trauma than a traditional court divorce. Mediated divorce is a collaborative process, which creates better co-parenting opportunities for spouses after divorce.

Unlike court proceedings, mediation is a confidential process. Mediators who are third-party professionals help couples reach a fair outcome by facilitating communication. They resolve all issues about divorce, including child custody, child and spousal support, future support modifications, and debts and property division.

If you are considering mediation, consider FamiliesFirstMediation mediators, who have 20 years of experience in Santa Cruz divorce mediation and family law. Families First Mediation mediators strive to put you in control of your divorce. They believe a successful mediated divorce results in a quality, long-lasting agreement. They offer a free initial consultation, which they use to get to know you and your concerns and provide you with a plan for your divorce success.

This blog discusses mediation and the advantages and disadvantages of mediation in Santa Cruz.

Pros of Divorce Mediation in Santa Cruz:

The following benefits show how mediation is advantageous to spouses in Santa Cruz.

Cost Effective and Time Saving

Mediation in Santa Cruz is more inexpensive than other divorcing options. It costs around $3,500 to $15,000 plus, including the court’s filing fee and the mediator’s all-session fee. Both spouses can split up this mediator’s fee and pay their share. While In traditional court divorces, the entire cost of litigated divorce may range from $30,000 to $100,000 per party. Each party hires their attorney and pays separately, adding more costs to the divorce process.
Mediated divorces are time-friendly, and you can get the final judgment in just months, with usually 4-6 mediation sessions. However, litigated divorces take at least a year for more straightforward cases and more than two years for complex cases

More Control of the Outcome

In mediation, both spouses make decisions regarding their marriage. The mediator neither imposes a decision nor expresses an opinion regarding the process; her role is to facilitate communication.
However, in traditional divorce, a judge decides for you, your children, and assets. The judge makes the decision (while keeping you less familiar with what is going to happen). The courts have big caseloads, and they may not understand your circumstances the way you can for yourself (in mediation)

Flexible schedule and customized solutions

You set your pace, time, and schedule in mediation, making it more convenient and casual, unlike court battles in which you get the hearing dates as per the (busy) court’s schedule.
Divorce mediation offers both parties more customized solutions tailored to their goals and specific family needs.

Better Post Divorce Relationship and Stability

Mediation leads to better post-divorce relations between the spouses as they reach a marital settlement agreement through a collaborative approach. However, in a contested divorce case, you spend years battling in the courthouse, which has less follow-through and may require divorce judgment modification in the future. Therefore, you are less likely to be on terms with your spouse in a traditional divorce, and smooth co-parenting becomes the dream.

Privacy and Confidentiality

Mediation offers more privacy and confidentiality than court-driven divorces. No one sits behind and records your mediation sessions. A mediator doesn’t disclose information to anyone. This feature has many celebrity couples and public profiles choosing to mediate their matters to keep them private. . Also, many laws in California protect the confidentiality of (private) mediation.

Mediator Spotlight Dina Haddad

Dina is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation. Her mission is make A-class services available to clients at all socio-economic levels by providing her commitment to excellence at a fraction of the cost of traditional divorce options. Dina sits as a Judge Pro Tempore for the Personal Property Arbitration in Santa Clara County and is a family law mediator for the Agency for Dispute Resolution (ADR), a premier provider of private dispute resolution services with a selective panel of neutrals.

See What Our Clients Say About Us

Lynn
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"Dina Haddad and Families First made a difficult process so much easier for us. For families with complex situations, Dina is the perfect choice. She has so many potential solutions at her fingertips and offers good advice while working through the choices. We were grateful to have found her and Families First."
Steven
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"Very good experience. Dina knows how to get everyone on the same page while keeping both parties on friendly terms. This was a very amicable resolution thanks to Dina. I would highly recommend anyone going through this versus hiring separate attorneys and ending on not so friendly terms. We are still friends and care for the welfare of each other, well worth it!"
John
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"We like the way Dina Haddad and Families First Mediation made the well-being of our kids their top priority. They guided us through what could have been a messy process, and looked out for the best interests of both of us. Dina and Deborah were easy to work with, and made our divorce much less stressful than it would have been if we had gone through opposing lawyers."
Veronica
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"As much as you can love going through mediation and divorce, Dina H. is the one to help you come to a positive outcome. She has good ideas and alternatives that you may not think about with a traditional divorce. She is always fair and good at maintaining rules and boundaries. I would recommend her to anyone that has to go through this grueling process."
Andres
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“Divorce is never something you plan for and the complexity and legality of it is something most couples don’t know, understand or inquire about... Samira and Deborah are organized, professional, empathetic, knowledgeable, and efficient. They made the process simple and clear, ensuring both parties were satisfied. They answered and addressed all questions and concerns always being neutral. I’ll highly recommend it if you want to avoid the courtroom and save some headaches! Thank you Samira and Deborah!!!!”
Araceli
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"I highly recommend Dina and Deborah at Families First Mediation. Dina is awesome she helped guide us from beginning to the end through this very hard and emotional process of Divorce. I loved her compassion towards our needs and looked out for the best interest of our family. This is one of the hardest and complicated things to go through and she made sure we understood everything answering all of our questions. We really appreciate all your help and how smoothly the whole process went Thank-you."
David
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"Dina is very knowledgeable both in terms of the divorce laws and accounting. She is a great listener and amazing in finding a solution that works for both parties. She has a very creative mind to resolve conflicts be it about child custody, scheduling or asset division."
Dolores
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"Families First really helped make a difficult process seamless and helped us keep our friendship intact. Thanks to Dina and Deborah, we were able to look at everything honestly, openly, and together in a safe and friendly manner. They are wonderful!"
Matt
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"Dina and Deborah helped us maintain our MSA, even years later, with the same kindness and professionalism as the first time we all worked together. We've both come to trust FFM after both of us would independently check-in with our lawyers. Dina and FFM never failed to give us both fair and reasonable advice and direction."
Sharon
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"I highly recommend Families First Mediation if you and your spouse are thinking about going separate ways. Dina and team are friendly, easy to work with, thorough, and responsive. They made a difficult transition seamless, which is not easy to do given the reason people go to see them in the first place. Dina always made sure to be fair to both of us in a gentle, yet poignant way. I wouldn't hesitate to use her services again should the need arise, and would highly recommend her to anyone!"
Carla
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"While this process can be full of emotion and never easy, Dina showed excellent professionalism and compassion during the entire process. We selected her after speaking with several mediators. She was thoughtful, thorough, and patient in explaining what to expect. Throughout the process, she explained the various pros and cons of each decision, made sure we understood the various details of each point, and was creative in finding alternative ways to reach solutions when necessary. Her suggestions were fair and she never pressured us into a decision until we were ready. I've already recommended her services to several other people and will continue to do so."
Jonathan
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"For anyone out there navigating the legal complexities and emotional fallout of a divorce with children involved, I’d recommend Dina and Families First Mediation without a shred of reservation. She was able to skillfully work with us in acknowledging the emotional ramifications with compassion, while always maintaining a fair-minded and focused approach throughout that kept the process moving. In the end, we arrived at an agreement that was in the best interest of all parties involved, without needing to set foot in a court room or throw thousands of dollars away in litigation. Thank you, Dina!"
Annie
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"The transition out of marriage has been difficult and emotional. Dina has shown excellent professionalism throughout the process. She has a warm sensitivity that allows both parties to see what is most beneficial for the family unit. I thank her for all her hard work and her quick email responses during this challenging time. Dina comes with quality legal experience and advocates for BOTH sides. Most of all, I am thankful that she has helped our family as a whole work through this. My children and my ex-husband can now move forward and rebuild our lives. Thank you Dina."
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Cons of Divorce Mediation in Santa Cruz:

The following benefits show how mediation is advantageous to spouses in Santa Cruz.

Not Workable for Couples Having Power Imbalance Issues

Mediation is based upon open dialogue and collaboration between couples. However, if one spouse in the mediation tries to dominate over the other, it will disrupt the level playing field and fairness of the entire process. In such a scenario, where one partner denies cooperation, consider a traditional court case. The court may have to step in and may the decisions on your matter.

Not Suitable For High Contested and Complex Cases

Mediation may not be suitable for highly contested divorces. Likewise, cases involving domestic violence and abuse may limit mediation to work because the victim spouse may not freely express concerns due to threats or coercion of the other spouse.
Likely, cases of complex finances (hidden assets, complex business ownership, etc.) may not be suitable for mediation if one spouse is not disclosing the right information.

Expected Cost of Mediation in Santa Cruz

Our Families First Mediation Mediators in Los Angeles, CA, have helped thousands of couples agree on the specific terms of their divorces. “Families First Mediation ” Mediators have saved spouses from costly litigation with customized strategies suited to their family’s needs.

Following are the Services of Families First Mediation Mediators:

Why Mediate My Divorce

Divorce Mediation is proven as the most effective approach for divorce. You stay in control of your divorce case and you make the decisions for you and your family, not a judge or lawyer. You also save money, paying for one impartial professional rather than multiple professionals with differing goals. Also, mediation takes far less time than any of the other available options.

We believe anyone can successfully mediate their divorce or legal separation. In fact, statistics show children do much better when parents mediate. We provide a customized process that allows couples to move quickly and successfully through their divorce process. We provide the legal knowledge you need to make the right decisions for you and your family. We take the complexity of divorce and make it simple.

Families First Mediation Process

1

Start A Divorce

We will prepare and file the Petition and Response for the divorce or legal separation for you. These papers start your divorce case.

2

Mediate An Agreement

You will meet with the attorney-mediator and your spouse in working sessions. On average, parties need 6 sessions. The attorney-mediator will help you understand the law and provide you options for property division, parenting and child and spousal support. Using that information, the attorney-mediator will guide you to an agreement. We are looking for results that you understand and work for you, each other, and your family - both today and for your future.

3

Complete Disclosures

For every divorce and legal separation, you must exchange and complete financial disclosures. We will guide you through them so they are exchanged and done correctly

4

Divorce Judgment

We will put your agreements together in a final agreement, known as an MSA. We submit this to court to become your divorce judgment.

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Virtual Sessions

Our mediation sessions are virtual. Prior to the Covid-19 pandemic, we offered virtual sessions and relied heavily on technology to offer the best services to our clients and keep their costs down. We rely on secure methods to share documents, online calendaring, electronic payment options and other useful integrations. Unlike other divorce practices, you won’t find charges on your invoice for us to file or print your documents to paper.

The differences between mediation and lawyer-driven divorce are as follows:

  • Time: Mediation takes 3-6 months (4-6 sessions) to reach a fair settlement in Santa Cruz. While a lawyer-driven divorce can take around 12 to 36 months.
  • Money: Mediation is inexpensive, with total pricing from $5,000 to $15,000 in California. On the other hand, divorce through a lawyer costs around $30,000 to $100,000 per person.
  • Adversarial Nature: A mediator helps spouses settle divorce issues, and she does not advocate for either divorcing party. However, in a lawyer-driven divorce, each party has their lawyer arguing back and forth, making it adversarial.

The cost of mediation in Santa Cruz depends upon the mediator’s billing structures and other factors (case complexities, mediator’s experience, etc.). Some mediators have flat fee packages, while others use hourly or hybrid models. In California, each party has a court filing fee of $435. The mediation expenses may range from a few thousand dollars to $15,000 plus. Let’s have a glimpse of the fees of mediators:

  • Hourly billing Method: Mediators in Santa Cruz may charge around $200 to $650 per hour (excluding other factors) for their mediation services.
  • Flat Fee Packages: Mediators have varying fees depending upon the case complexities and experience. In Santa Cruz, mediators usually charge around $3,500 to $15,000, including all fees
  • The courts sponsor the court-ordered mediation as an alternative to litigation or before proceeding with the case. While private mediation is a private process and divorcing couples initiate it voluntarily.
  • In court-sponsored mediation, the court decides the mediator. However, in a mediated divorce, couples decide on a mediator, making the process more flexible.
  • The mediator from court-ordered mediation submits reports to the court regarding the entire sponsored mediation process. However, in private mediation, mediation experts don’t have to submit the report of sessions to a court.