Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California
Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California

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Divorce Mediation in Los Altos
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What is Divorce Mediation in Los Altos?

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Divorce mediation is a great way to stay in control of your divorce in Los Altos and throughout California. Unlike a traditional divorce which takes an average 2 years and can cost from $20,000.00 to $100,000.00+, mediation puts the couple in control of the process. As a result, the couple ends up with a high-quality agreement for a fraction of the cost and time. The mediator empowers the couple with family law options to maximize the community benefits, identify separate claims, and finalize the couple’s divorce. By providing these resources to the couple together, the couple rebuilds trust and teamwork to finish their divorce.

Your mediator can be a lawyer (attorney-mediator) or another certified third-party person (non-attorney mediator). At Families First Mediation, our mediators are family law attorneys with at least 20 years of family law experience. Our mediators pride themselves in creative agreements, which focus on important details like tax consequences and maximizing the benefits available to the parties compared to a traditional divorce process.

Roles of (Attorney) Mediators

The following are the important roles our mediators take on for the mediation to be successful:

Fostering Collaborative Communication and Giving Legal Information

Neutral Mediators play the crucial role of facilitating sound communication between spouses based on their divorcing goals. “FamiliesFirstMediation” Mediators use communication skills and help couples discuss different options to resolve their dispute on critical divorce matters
Our Los Altos-based Attorney mediators can guide couples about the legal implications of the decisions made under the mediation process by legal frameworks and family law. They may also offer legal advice and draft legal documents.

Using Problem-Solving Skills to Identify Major Issues

Getting served with divorce papers is stressful. Imagine having to live your day to day life with court hearings, court papers, deadlines, depositions, discovery, and attorney conferences. It is incredibly stressful. Compare this to mediation. In mediation, you still have to work through your divorce (which is difficult) but the process works around your schedule and needs. You are working towards agreements, which increases the cooperative tone and de-escalates conflict.

Taking Help from Other Professionals for Effective Agreement

To resolve your dispute, Our qualified Families First Mediation Mediators may involve other professionals depending upon the complexities involved in the case. They might seek help from financial experts to resolve financial conflicts. The Mediators are well-trained to understand your emotions. Therefore, for severe circumstances and specific issues, they may talk to a mental health clinician, mental therapist, or child psychologist to ease the divorce process.

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Meet The Team

Meet Your Future Mediation Team

At Families First Mediation, we are a dedicated team of six professionals with over 60 years of combined experience in family law. Our collaborative group includes skilled attorney mediators, a case manager, and a divorce paralegal. We also work directly with financial experts and forensic accountants. We’re committed to providing compassionate and effective divorce mediation services in Los Altos, California.

Dina Haddad, Esq.

Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator

Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.

As an attorney-mediator based in California,  Dina has helped countless couples resolve issues related to divorce, legal separation, child custody, spousal support, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements—amicably and effectively.

She earned her post-doctorate law degree in mediation from the renowned Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution.

Dina has practiced family law at some of the most respected firms in both Southern and Northern California. She brings a strong legal background together with a thoughtful, educational approach to mediation—ensuring both parties feel informed, heard, and empowered to reach lasting agreements.

She has served as Judge Pro Tempore for Personal Property Arbitration in Santa Clara County and is a family law mediator with the Agency for Dispute Resolution (ADR), a premier provider of private dispute resolution services.

Divorce Mediator Samira Amato Families First Mediation in San Jose, Ca

Samira Amato, Esq.

Of Counsel Divorce Mediator

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Deborah Yamashiro

Divorce Paralegal

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Katherine Pearson

Divorce Paralegal & Case Manager

Our Proven Mediation Process for California Divorces

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Book a Free Consultation

The most important step is to make the conscious effort to mediate your divorce. Those that do save money, time and fees. And at Families First, our parties leave with high quality agreements for their today and future. Book a free consultation to learn how you can mediate your divorce successfully.

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Mediate An Agreement

You will meet with the attorney-mediator and your spouse in working sessions. On average, parties need 6 sessions. The attorney-mediator will help you understand the law and provide you options for property division, parenting and child and spousal support. Using that information, the attorney-mediator will guide you to an agreement. We are looking for results that you understand and work for you, each other, and your family - both today and for your future.

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Complete Disclosures

We work with you to complete the required steps for a California divorce. This includes completing and exchanging your financial disclosures. We use these disclosures to help us reach the agreement.

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Divorce Judgment

We will put your agreements together in a final agreement, known as an Marital Settlement Agreement. We submit this to court to become your divorce judgment. You won't have to go to court. Most of our parties finish in less than 6 months.

Services and Roles of Divorce Mediators in Los Altos, Ca

‘Online Mediators’ help spouses navigate their divorce negotiations, facilitate collaborative communication, and clarify issues like property division and child custody, besides being fair and empathetic. Our Families First Mediation mediators in Los Altos, CA have all helped thousands of couples agree on the specific terms of their divorces with the above-said qualities. Families First Mediation mediators have saved spouses from spending $100,000.00 in costly litigation with customized strategies catered to the family’s needs

Top 10 Benefits of Divorce Mediations for Divorcing Couples in Los Altos

Divorce mediation comes with several benefits:

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Dina Haddad, Esq.

Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator

Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.

See What Our Client Say About Us

Explore client stories and reflections on how we’ve made divorce in California simple and stress-free through our mediation process.

Marievelle Domingo
Marievelle Domingo
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"I heard so many great feedbacks about Families First Mediation so I was eager to sign up to overcome my fears about going through my divorce...."
Eric Chuang
Eric Chuang
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"Dina and her team are amazing. They guided us through this most difficult time in our lives with ease and proficiency...."
Julie Poklewski
Julie Poklewski
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"Working with Families First Mediation Group was such a positive and reassuring experience. From the very first conversation...."
Jacob P
Jacob P
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"Samira and FFM guided us through our divorce while navigating a fairly complex (non-standard) living and parenting plan...."
Sapna Bhagwat
Sapna Bhagwat
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"Families First Mediation recently helped my ex and I navigate the dissolution of our marriage....."
H B
H B
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"Dina is not only incredibly knowledgeable—she is so much more than just a mediator. She is a rare and special person who brings light to your path...."
Lynn
Lynn
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"Dina Haddad and Families First made a difficult process so much easier for us. For families with complex situations, Dina is the perfect choice..."
Steven
Steven
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"Very good experience. Dina knows how to get everyone on the same page while keeping both parties on friendly terms..........."
John Milstead
John Milstead
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"We like the way Dina Haddad and Families First Mediation made the well-being of our kids their top priority. They guided us through......."
Veronica Presedo
Veronica Presedo
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"As much as you can love going through mediation and divorce, Dina H. is the one to help you come to a positive outcome. She has good......"
Araceli Taylor
Araceli Taylor
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"I highly recommend Dina and Deborah at Families First Mediation. Dina is awesome she helped guide us from beginning to the end through...."
Dolores Duran-Cefalu
Dolores Duran-Cefalu
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"Families First really helped make a difficult process seamless and helped us keep our friendship intact. Thanks to Dina and Deborah, we were able ...."
Matthew Pawluk
Matthew Pawluk
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"Dina and Deborah helped us maintain our MSA, even years later, with the same kindness and professionalism as the first time we all..."
Sharon Meheula
Sharon Meheula
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"I highly recommend Families First Mediation if you and your spouse are thinking about going separate ways. Dina and team are friendly, easy to work with, thorough, and responsive....."
Carla Engelbrecht
Carla Engelbrecht
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"While this process can be full of emotion and never easy, Dina showed excellent professionalism and compassion during ....."
Jonathan Frecceri
Jonathan Frecceri
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"For anyone out there navigating the legal complexities and emotional fallout of a divorce with children involved, I’d recommend Dina...."
Annie Nam
Annie Nam
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"The transition out of marriage has been difficult and emotional. Dina has shown excellent professionalism throughout the process......"
Matthew Howard
Matthew Howard
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"Dina and the team at Families First Mediation were not only highly professional, but they were also very personal and extremely helpful throughout the entire process..."
Kendall Hofstetter
Kendall Hofstetter
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I am truly grateful for the support we received from Dina and her team. They were responsive and patient throughout the mediation/divorce process, as we navigated uncharted, uncomfortable territory.

F.A.Q

Choosing the expert mediator for your successful mediation is highly essential. Following are the top questions you should ask your mediator respectfully.

  • What kind of cases do you mediate?
  • How long will each session of mediation be?
  • How much do your mediation services cost?
  • How long will it take to complete my mediation process?
  • Do you offer a flat fee or an hourly model for mediation?
  • How can your mediation style help us achieve our divorce goals?
  • What if I don’t reach an agreement with my spouse through mediation?
  • Will you draft legal documents and a settlement agreement in the process?
  • What is your qualification, and how much experience do you have in mediation?
  • Can issues like child custody, child support, and marital property division be resolved in mediated settlement?
  • What if my spouse is not cooperating with me? Do you have any way to deal with this situation?

Both are alternative dispute resolution methods but arbitration is more similar to private judging.

  • In mediation, mediators help spouses get a divorce without giving any legal advice or making a decision, while in arbitration, an arbitrator or private judge sees the case and issues the final ruling or binding decision on divorce.
  • Mediation is solution-oriented and peaceful, but arbitration is adjudicative or court-like.
  • Mediated divorce is formal and less expensive than divorce arbitration. While arbitration is a formal process and more expensive than the former.
  • Both parties retain control of the outcome in the mediated divorce, while the arbitration outcome is arbitrator-controlled.

Finding a reputable divorce mediator in Los Altos requires some research. Once you learn about professional mediation experts in your city, create a short list detailing their qualifications and training. If mediators offer a free video consultation for discussion, this will give you an opportunity to meet with the mediator virtually to see if that mediator is a good fit for you.
To find a qualified mediator in Los Altos, California:

  • Search on Google and identify the San Diego-based mediators;
  • Check online California legal directories to find a mediation facilitator;
  • Reach out to family attorneys in your city and ask for referrals;
  • Ask for referrals from trusted friends and family members who have successfully mediated their divorces;
  • Contact the local court in your area; and
  • Read and review the testimonials of mediators.