You’ve chosen to get divorced. The next step is to decide how you will handle this divorce. Couples in Orange County who pick divorce mediation may be able to go through the divorce process privately, at their own pace, and reach an agreement instead of going through a public and potentially hostile litigation process.
Families First Mediation provides a secure way for couples in Orange County to mediate online, led by seasoned attorneys: Dina and Samiara.
Once you and your partner agree on specific terms, you can submit them to the court without needing to appear before the judge. Book your free consultation with us to know more of your options for peaceful and out of court dissolution.
The way you decide to end your marriage affects how much money you will have, how you will raise your children, and the future in general.
Couples in Orange County who choose divorce mediation may prefer this approach since it allows them to work through their issues collaboratively and give each other more input into decision-making without relying so much on courts.
If you want to minimize conflict, maintain your privacy, share responsibility in making decisions about the future, and preserve your ability to co-parent your children after your marriage ends, then mediation is likely an appropriate choice.
Under California law, the information exchanged during the mediation process remains confidential. However, once there is a mediated divorce agreement, that agreement becomes a public document via the court’s records.
California couples looking for a cost-effective alternative to traditional divorce mediation can consider using Online Divorce Mediation, which helps couples mediate their divorce without physically attending a mediator’s office.
Families First Mediation provides 100% virtual (online) mediation services in Orange County, CA. That includes Irvine, Newport Beach, Anaheim, Huntington Beach, Mission Viejo, Costa Mesa, Laguna Beach, Coto De Caza, Tustin, and many other surrounding areas.
Because each spouse can participate in mediation from their own space, at their convenience, online mediation allows individuals to work on their divorce negotiations with less disruption than traditional mediation. Additionally, since spouses will have to schedule meetings around work and family obligations anyway, this format also avoids unnecessary travel.
This remote format does not change the mediation process. However, couples will still need to discuss all necessary aspects of a separation/divorce, create a document outlining their agreements regarding core matters, and follow through on the legal requirements set by the Court in Orange County.
Couples opting for Divorce Mediation in Orange County can take advantage of an orderly process that goes from their initial consultation to a signed agreement and then to filing with the Court.
Families First Mediation is available to guide couples through each phase: deciding whether mediation applies, making financial disclosure, discussing the terms of the divorce, drafting a comprehensive Marital Settlement Agreement, and finally completing all necessary Court steps.
Each of these stages is important because they help convert the couple’s decisions regarding property division, child and spousal support, etc., into an enforceable agreement.
The initial step is a free consultation to see if mediation is the best option for you. At this time, we will provide you with an overview of the mediation process, the areas of the divorce you may have to address, an approximate timeline for completion, and the costs associated with mediation before you commit. Feel free to prepare for this conversation with our mediation checklist.
California law requires that spouses exchange financial information during a divorce. Typically, this involves exchanging the Declaration of Disclosure (Form FL-140), Schedule of Assets and Debts (Form FL-142) or Property Declaration (Form FL-160), and Income and Expense Declaration (Form FL-150), along with any additional documentation needed to verify the accuracy of the statements.
Dina or Samira will help guide you through your property settlement choices and your family plan, child support and spousal support, and how to divide retirement accounts and other complicated assets.
The mediation may be done jointly or separately so each party can receive guidance from their attorney. This will depend on the parties’ individual needs. There are generally six sessions, which is a common estimate of the time needed to prepare an MSA.
Once you reach agreement on all aspects of your marital settlement plan, your mediator will prepare a comprehensive and detailed Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) outlining the terms and conditions agreed to by you and your spouse.
This MSA should reflect each couple’s unique circumstances and provide a clear understanding of what has been agreed to. Once prepared, this agreement becomes part of your Judgment.
As of January 1st, 2026, qualifying couples will have the opportunity to use California’s new Joint-Petition Divorce Process with Form FL-700.
While filing a joint petition initiates the divorce process, the couple must still make the necessary disclosures and negotiate their own agreements prior to filing the required Judgment.
In cases where a joint petition is used, the six-month waiting period begins once the petition has been filed.
We have helped those throughout California reach an uncontested out-of-court divorce. Our mediation process is designed to help you reduce stress and reach a better settlement agreement more quickly. We handle all following family law matters:
Parents in California are typically required to attempt mediation prior to meeting with a judge when they have been unable to agree on child-custody arrangements or visitation schedules.
In Orange County, Child Custody Recommending Counseling (CCRC) is a common mediation program that provides counselors as mediators to recommend the best interests of the children to the court when both parties are unable to reach an agreement.
All of Orange County’s family law cases will be filed at the Lamoreaux Justice Center. The cost for filing your first appearance is currently set at $435 per party. However, there is a fee waiver (FW-001) option for those eligible.
Private mediation is another option: you will have the opportunity to mediate your own divorce and develop your own parenting plan without ever having to see a court counselor. Learn more about private vs court-ordered mediation.
The price of an Orange County divorce mediator will depend on the way they set their rates (hourly, package deal, etc.), how many times you have to meet with them, and what is involved in your particular situation. A couple who has no disagreement regarding their divorce is likely to spend less money than one in a dispute.
Generally, it takes about 6 sessions to plan out your divorce if there are no significant issues; however, when you have a lot going on (business valuation, RSU’s, multiple homes, retirement accounts, child/spousal support), you need more time.
Most California mediators charge by the hour, have flat-fee packages based on how many sessions they believe they will need to achieve your goals, or use a combination of both hourly and flat rates (hybrid billing).
Not all divorce cases are equal, and during your free consultation call, we pick and explain the best pricing model that suits your unique situation.
Divorce mediation is best suited for Orange County couples who can communicate, share information, and negotiate with each other in good faith.
However, mediation may not be recommended for couples experiencing domestic violence, hiding assets, significant power disparities, or refusing to provide relevant information regarding negotiations.
Couples who can get along well will find that mediation allows them to resolve disputes as a team and maintain control over their own decision-making process.
In cases where there is agreement on key issues, mediation may assist in developing an overall comprehensive agreement.
Mediation protects private communications through confidentiality agreements, making it a strong option for those seeking privacy, even though the final divorce decree is public.
For high net worth couples, complex assets such as businesses, investments, retirement accounts, etc., may be resolved through structured mediation.
Regardless of your socio-economic status, couples can consider whether mediation is a viable method for resolving their differences.
Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator
At Families First Mediation, our team of four professionals brings 60 years of combined family law and mediation experience. Our collaborative team includes attorney-mediators, a financial mediator, and a divorce paralegal, all dedicated to providing affordable divorce mediation in Los Angeles and throughout California.
Finding the best mediator in Orange County is important because of differing professional experience. An attorney-mediator will bring their background in California Family Law to your mediation sessions; however, they are not permitted to give you legal advice.
At Families First Mediation, attorney-mediators like Dina Haddad and Samira will assist your spouse in understanding all possible legal choices and options available regarding property division, spousal support, and complex asset issues, including preparing a complete Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA).
Couples in Orange County considering using divorce mediation may find it a more peaceful means of resolving their divorce issues outside of prolonged litigation in the courtroom. Your couple’s settlement is then written up and submitted to the Orange County court for review, acceptance, and entry of Judgment.
Want to avoid litigating your Orange County divorce? Begin by scheduling a no-cost 15-minute consultation online. We’ll go over your case, tell you how Mediation works and what you might expect regarding time frames and fees.
From Irvine to Newport Beach, your first step can take place from home online. Scheduling A Free Consultation.
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Cost is based on the charging model the mediator has developed, how many sessions there are, and how complex the case is. Costs do not include court filing fees.
No, it depends. If both parties have reached an agreement on all aspects of the divorce and the parties qualify under the statute, the court may grant a final judgment for divorce without the need for a hearing.
A minimum of six months. There is a statutory time frame of six months or greater. However, the time it takes to obtain a final divorce decree may be longer than this due to how quickly you and your ex-spouse agree to all terms, the preparation of papers, processing by the courts, etc.
Yes, once included in the court judgment. An agreement submitted along with the required paperwork to finalize the divorce can become part of the enforceable divorce judgment.
No, mediation is not generally required for your divorce, but it is an option available when trying to resolve your divorce matters. However, prior to appearing before the judge in a dispute over children, parents may be ordered to participate in court-connected mediation.