Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California
Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California

Oakland Divorce Mediation Lawyer | Super Lawyer 2026

Divorce is stressful enough. Work with top divorce mediators Dina & Samira to take control of your case in Oakland, CA offering the most comprehensive divorce mediation services.

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Divorce Mediation Services in Oakland, CA.

Divorce mediation is a great way to stay in control of your divorce in Oakland and throughout California. Unlike a traditional divorce which takes an average 2 years and can cost from $20,000.00 to $100,000.00+, mediation puts the couple in control of the process. As a result, the couple ends up with a high-quality agreement for a fraction of the cost and time. The mediator empowers the couple with family law options to maximize the community benefits, identify separate claims, and finalize the couple’s divorce. By providing these resources to the couple together, the couple rebuilds trust and teamwork to finish their divorce.

Your mediator can be a lawyer (attorney-mediator) or another certified third-party person (non-attorney mediator). At Families First Mediation, our mediators are family law attorneys with at least 20 years of family law experience. Our mediators pride themselves in creative agreements, which focus on important details like tax consequences and maximizing the benefits available to the parties compared to a traditional divorce process.

Our Family Law Mediation Services across California

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Meet The Team

Meet Your Future Mediation Team

At Families First Mediation, we are a dedicated team of six professionals with over 60 years of combined experience in family law. Our collaborative group includes skilled attorney mediators, a financial mediator, a case manager, and a divorce paralegal, all committed to providing compassionate and effective divorce mediation services in California.

Dina Haddad, Esq.

Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator

Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.

As an attorney-mediator based in California,  Dina has helped countless couples resolve issues related to divorce, legal separation, child custody, spousal support, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements—amicably and effectively.

She earned her post-doctorate law degree in mediation from the renowned Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution.

Dina has practiced family law at some of the most respected firms in both Southern and Northern California. She brings a strong legal background together with a thoughtful, educational approach to mediation—ensuring both parties feel informed, heard, and empowered to reach lasting agreements.

She has served as Judge Pro Tempore for Personal Property Arbitration in Santa Clara County and is a family law mediator with the Agency for Dispute Resolution (ADR), a premier provider of private dispute resolution services.

Divorce Mediator Samira Amato Families First Mediation in San Jose, Ca

Samira Amato, Esq.

Of Counsel Divorce Mediator

Senior Paralegal

Deborah Yamashiro

Divorce Paralegal

Case

Katherine Pearson

Divorce Paralegal & Case Manager

Our Proven Mediation Process for California Divorces

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Book a Free Consultation

The most important step is to make the conscious effort to mediate your divorce. Those that do save money, time and fees. And at Families First, our parties leave with high quality agreements for their today and future. Book a free consultation to learn how you can mediate your divorce successfully.

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Mediate An Agreement

You will meet with the attorney-mediator and your spouse in working sessions. On average, parties need 6 sessions. The attorney-mediator will help you understand the law and provide you options for property division, parenting and child and spousal support. Using that information, the attorney-mediator will guide you to an agreement. We are looking for results that you understand and work for you, each other, and your family - both today and for your future.

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Complete Disclosures

We work with you to complete the required steps for a California divorce. This includes completing and exchanging your financial disclosures. We use these disclosures to help us reach the agreement.

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Divorce Judgment

We will put your agreements together in a final agreement, known as an Marital Settlement Agreement. We submit this to court to become your divorce judgment. You won't have to go to court. Most of our parties finish in less than 6 months.

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Dina Haddad, Esq.

Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator

Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.

See What Our Client Say About Us

Explore client stories and reflections on how we’ve made divorce in California simple and stress-free through our mediation process.

Marievelle Domingo
Marievelle Domingo
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"I heard so many great feedbacks about Families First Mediation so I was eager to sign up to overcome my fears about going through my divorce...."
Eric Chuang
Eric Chuang
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"Dina and her team are amazing. They guided us through this most difficult time in our lives with ease and proficiency...."
Julie Poklewski
Julie Poklewski
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"Working with Families First Mediation Group was such a positive and reassuring experience. From the very first conversation...."
Jacob P
Jacob P
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"Samira and FFM guided us through our divorce while navigating a fairly complex (non-standard) living and parenting plan...."
Sapna Bhagwat
Sapna Bhagwat
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"Families First Mediation recently helped my ex and I navigate the dissolution of our marriage....."
H B
H B
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"Dina is not only incredibly knowledgeable—she is so much more than just a mediator. She is a rare and special person who brings light to your path...."
Lynn
Lynn
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"Dina Haddad and Families First made a difficult process so much easier for us. For families with complex situations, Dina is the perfect choice..."
Steven
Steven
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"Very good experience. Dina knows how to get everyone on the same page while keeping both parties on friendly terms..........."
John Milstead
John Milstead
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"We like the way Dina Haddad and Families First Mediation made the well-being of our kids their top priority. They guided us through......."
Veronica Presedo
Veronica Presedo
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"As much as you can love going through mediation and divorce, Dina H. is the one to help you come to a positive outcome. She has good......"
Araceli Taylor
Araceli Taylor
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"I highly recommend Dina and Deborah at Families First Mediation. Dina is awesome she helped guide us from beginning to the end through...."
Dolores Duran-Cefalu
Dolores Duran-Cefalu
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"Families First really helped make a difficult process seamless and helped us keep our friendship intact. Thanks to Dina and Deborah, we were able ...."
Matthew Pawluk
Matthew Pawluk
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"Dina and Deborah helped us maintain our MSA, even years later, with the same kindness and professionalism as the first time we all..."
Sharon Meheula
Sharon Meheula
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"I highly recommend Families First Mediation if you and your spouse are thinking about going separate ways. Dina and team are friendly, easy to work with, thorough, and responsive....."
Carla Engelbrecht
Carla Engelbrecht
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"While this process can be full of emotion and never easy, Dina showed excellent professionalism and compassion during ....."
Jonathan Frecceri
Jonathan Frecceri
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"For anyone out there navigating the legal complexities and emotional fallout of a divorce with children involved, I’d recommend Dina...."
Annie Nam
Annie Nam
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"The transition out of marriage has been difficult and emotional. Dina has shown excellent professionalism throughout the process......"
Matthew Howard
Matthew Howard
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"Dina and the team at Families First Mediation were not only highly professional, but they were also very personal and extremely helpful throughout the entire process..."
Kendall Hofstetter
Kendall Hofstetter
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I am truly grateful for the support we received from Dina and her team. They were responsive and patient throughout the mediation/divorce process, as we navigated uncharted, uncomfortable territory.