Divorce is stressful enough. Work with top divorce mediators Dina & Samira to take control of your case in Alameda, CA offering the most comprehensive divorce mediation services.
Are you seeking an amicable, uncontested divorce in Alameda County? Mediation is the best solution for couples handling divorce, legal separation, or post-divorce modification.
Mediation will guide you through the entire Alameda county divorce process and allows you to fully discuss all matters from finances to children in a private mediation setting.
Take full control of your divorce and get the chance to be on the driver’s seat. Our expert mediators at Families First Mediation empower parties and help them simplify cases and save costs. Book your free consultation with Dina Haddad – California expert divorce attorney mediator.
Divorce mediation is a procedure in which an impartial expert assists you and your partner in arriving at a complete agreement without the need for a judge ruling.
You can still initiate mediation even after submitting your divorce documents to the Alameda family court.
In mediation, you have the ability to settle all matters a judge would address without the expensive delays. You bypass paying hourly fees for a prolonged case and develop a personalized agreement quickly.
To start the mediation process:
You both must first willingly choose mediation – offering flexibility and effectiveness compared to the courts restricted mediation services.
Find an expert mediator who has thorough training in family law and essential attributes such as impartiality, strong communication, and empathy.
Within 6-8 sessions, your mediator will clarify the procedure, pinpoint concerns, and assist you in discussing effective resolutions.
The mediator prepares your Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA). Both of you carefully examine it prior to signing.
Agree on terms of divorce and turn your case into uncontested divorce. Later, you can submit Alameda County divorce forms to the court.
Your divorce will be finalized after the court completes their work and a mandatory waiting period of 6 months and one day from when the petition for divorce was served.
Everyone’s divorce is different and the topics that are more important for one couple will be less important for another. Mediation allows you to focus on the things that matter most.
You can prepare effectively for your session no matter whether you live in Los Angeles, San Mateo, or Alameda using divorce mediation checklist and divorce consult checklist. You can discuss the following topics:
We help you divide all assets and debts (houses, savings accounts, etc.) with value ensuring a fair financial division.
You have the option to draft spousal support agreements tailored to your circumstances and needs.
Develop a parenting plan that outlines custody, visitation, and child support provisions considering what is most beneficial for your children.
Address maintaining necessary coverage for each spouse as part of your final settlement.
Discuss and plan for future events, college expenses, or changes in income to prevent conflicts in the future.
Online divorce mediation is completely accessible and efficient for every resident of Alameda County. Our expert staff, skilled in divorce mediation and family law, can assist you with proficiency.
We use many approaches of mediation and sometimes we also combine the approaches to resolve deadlocks and promote agreements. But it may depend upon the nature of cases too. We customize our method to fit your needs:
At Families First Mediation, we are a dedicated team of four professionals with over 60 years of combined family law experience. Our collaborative group includes skilled attorney mediators, a case manager, and a divorce paralegal. We also work directly with financial experts and forensic accountants. We’re committed to providing compassionate and effective divorce mediation services in Alameda, California.
Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator
Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.
As an attorney-mediator based in California, Dina has helped countless couples resolve issues related to divorce, legal separation, child custody, spousal support, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements—amicably and effectively.
She earned her post-doctorate law degree in mediation from the renowned Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution.
Dina has practiced family law at some of the most respected firms in both Southern and Northern California. She brings a strong legal background together with a thoughtful, educational approach to mediation—ensuring both parties feel informed, heard, and empowered to reach lasting agreements.
She has served as Judge Pro Tempore for Personal Property Arbitration in Santa Clara County and is a family law mediator with the Agency for Dispute Resolution (ADR), a premier provider of private dispute resolution services.

Of Counsel Divorce Mediator

Divorce Paralegal

Divorce Paralegal & Case Manager
Divorce mediation offered here is voluntary and confidential, empowering you to take charge. Our all-inclusive family mediation services cover divorce mediation, legal separation, child custody, child support (including modifications), and spousal support. We conduct family law settlement conferences and specialize in high-net-worth divorce mediation and marital agreements to protect your future.
We will prepare and file the Petition and Response for the divorce or legal separation for you. These papers start your divorce case.
You will meet with the attorney-mediator and your spouse in working sessions. On average, parties need 6 sessions. The attorney-mediator will help you understand the law and provide you options for property division, parenting and child and spousal support. Using that information, the attorney-mediator will guide you to an agreement. We are looking for results that you understand and work for you, each other, and your family - both today and for your future.
For every divorce and legal separation, you must exchange and complete financial disclosures. We will guide you through them so they are exchanged and done correctly
We will put your agreements together in a final agreement, known as an MSA. We submit this to court to become your divorce judgment.
Explore client stories and reflections on how we’ve made divorce in California simple and stress-free through our mediation process.
If a partner refuses, we can begin with a session to outline the benefits. Should they still object, other options, such as divorce or legal proceedings, would be necessary to proceed.
You can settle most issues through mediation, including asset division, debt obligations, spousal support, child custody, visitation schedules, and child support. This leads to a marital settlement agreement (MSA).
Some mediators in Alameda County are licensed attorneys, although it is not mandatory. A competent mediator needs to possess education in dispute resolution. Numerous mediators, including our group, have experience in family law to skillfully guide your conversations.
No. You can initiate mediation at any time you prefer. Prior to filing, after filing, or even while considering a legal separation. Beginning with mediation simplifies the court procedures.
The biggest downside of divorce mediation is that it requires mutual participation and good faith. If there is a severe power imbalance, domestic violence, or complete unwillingness to compromise, the process may not be suitable and the courts would be the only appropriate option.