Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California
Providing Divorce Mediation Services Throughout California

Simplify Your Sunnyvale Divorce with Divorce Mediation

Use Divorce mediation in Sunnyvale , CA to reach the best possible agreement in your divorce without a costly court battle and high attorney fees. Our experienced attorney mediators have empowered hundreds of sunnyvale couples to take control of their divorce, saving an average of $10,000 per couple. Book a free consultation with us to know how mediation can help in your case.

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Helping Sunnyvale Divorcing Couples Simplify Divorce with Expert Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation in Sunnyvale, California is a conflict or dispute resolution process for couples who want a productive and fair divorce. 

It allows both the divorcing spouses to control the final outcome per their divorce goals, rights, and interests. 

Divorce mediation involves qualified mediators who remain neutral and impartial to help couples reach a consensual settlement.

Spouses use mediation to discuss important terms of divorce, which derive the outcome rather than a court or judge deciding for them. 

Over the years, this divorcing option has become quite common in sunnyvale and other Bay areas of California because of its non-adversarial nature, cost-effectiveness, and faster speed than a litigated divorce. 

At Families First Mediation, we are considered divorce mediation experts in Sunnyvale, California. We provide a customized divorce mediation process that allows couples to move quickly through their divorce process, saving them time and money. 

We also provide you the legal knowledge you need to make the right decisions for you and your family. We take the complexity of divorce and make it simple.

You can mediate at any time! If you already started a divorce with attorneys, you can always stop and go to mediation to save yourself time and emotional expense. It’s never too late.

Get a FREE Divorce Mediation Consult with our expert mediator in Sunnyvale to explore more options for you.

A Complete Overview of Divorce Mediation in Sunnyvale

If your divorce is uncontested there is no better option than mediating your divorce. But before mediating your divorce you have to choose the best and neutral mediator in Sunnyvale. 

Check for mediators who offer free personalized mediation consultation to understand your divorce goals and needs. Here is how divorce mediation goes:

Information Gathering:

One of our mediators at this stage requests divorcing couples to provide information (like financial records, property outlines, and any existing or required parenting plans).

Identifying Issues and Negotiation:

The mediator helps spouses list crucial issues like child custody, spousal support and property division to find a mutually agreeable solution. In issues identification and negotiation both the divorcing couples remain present though sessions can be joint or separate depending upon the complexity of the case.

Drafting Agreement and Final Review:

Once the negotiations are completed, the mediator prepares a Settlement Agreement (often called Marital Settlement Agreement) based on all decisions that have been made in mediation and hand it over to both the couples for final review.

Divorce Finalization:

One of the mediators from Families First Mediation files the settlement agreement to the court with the required forms. The judge reviews the terms outlined before making them a matter of public record.

What Is the Divorce Mediation Process in Sunnyvale?

Before you start your mediation in divorce, or legal separation, we suggest you find a neutral and qualified mediator in OC, California. For this, you can look for free consultation from mediators to evaluate if they match your needs or divorce goals. 

Here’s how a typical divorce mediation process with Families First Mediation look like this:

Since divorce mediation involves little parental conflict compared to divorce litigation, mediation allows divorcing parties and their children to adjust, and adapt, allowing children to meet their potential as they become adults.

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Information Collection:

This is the very first stage of divorce mediation. Mediators use this to stage gather information of both spouses, including but not limited to financial documents, property information, and parenting plans. 

2.

Issues Identification & Negotiation:

The mediator assists the couple in outlining key issues, including child custody, spousal support, and property division, working toward a mutually acceptable resolution. Sessions may be held jointly or separately, depending on the case’s complexity.

3.

Agreement Drafting & Reviewing:

After negotiations, the mediator drafts a Settlement Agreement (also known as a Marital Settlement Agreement) reflecting the decisions made. Both spouses review the document to ensure accuracy.

4.

Finalizing the Divorce:

The mediator in this stage submits the settlement agreement and necessary forms to the court before ensuring that forms/agreements are legally binding and ready for court submission. After the submission, a judge reviews the terms, and in most cases, approves them without requiring a hearing.

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Who Can Benefit From Divorce Mediation?

Everyone can benefit from divorce mediation in Sunnyvale. From personalized attention to customized solutions, it can help you remain in control of your divorce rather than putting it into a public atmosphere with a judge. 

It also has less impact on your work schedule since you can schedule meetings at a time that works best for you. Online divorce mediation is especially useful if you happen to fall into these categories:

7 Reasons: Why Sunnyvale Divorcing Couples Should Choose Mediation.

Divorce Mediation offers a constructive and efficient approach to divorcing couples, gray couples and domestic partners navigating the complexities of divorce in Sunnyvale. 

By fostering open communication, mediation empowers couples to reach mutually agreeable solutions and quality agreements. Here are 6 reasons why you should choose divorce mediation:

1. Time Efficiency

Mediation takes far less time than a traditional litigated divorce. In California, for instance, a typical mediation takes 4–6 months, compared to a litigated divorce, which takes an average of 2 years to finalize.

3. Mediation and Emotional Management

Mediation, due to its collaborative nature, offers a unique channel for divorcing couples to manage their emotions more effectively than a litigious and battle-centered divorce. Divorce experts say that you should Surround yourself with high-quality friends and family, get into therapy, and have a divorce team including a consulting divorce attorney and a financial planner. For mediation to be successful, you need to be committed to working it out with your spouse. Make sure you set yourself up so you can do it.

5. Meditation Leads to Long-Lasting Quality Agreements

Mediation allows couples to create agreements considering their long-term financial goals, not just their current situations. Unlike court decisions, which tend to focus on the present, mediation offers flexibility to address future needs and concerns. This forward-thinking approach is also vital for ensuring financial stability after divorce.

2. Cost-Effectiveness

Mediation is significantly less expensive than traditional divorce proceedings. “We’re talking about comparing costs from ten thousand dollars to a hundred thousand dollars,” Dina highlights while discussing the significant cost differences between the two divorcing options.

4. Preserving Family and Post-Divorce Relationships

Another significant advantage of mediation is its ability to foster healthy relationships after divorce. Dina emphasizes that mediation can help maintain amicable relationships, which is particularly important for gray divorcees who will continue to share family events (such as weddings, birthdays, and graduations) and are more likely to have had long relationships with one another. Thus, mediation creates a healthier atmosphere for resolving conflicts.

6. Mediation Empowers Couples to Control Their Divorce.

Ultimately, mediation empowers individuals by giving them control over the outcome of their divorce. “Spouses took control of their divorce by mediating their divorce,” Dina emphasizes. And when spouses take control of their divorce, they lead toward more satisfactory and sustainable agreements. By working together through mediation, couples not only achieve resolutions tailored to their unique situations but also prioritize their well-being and financial security.

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Meet The Team

Meet Your Sunnyvale's Trusted Divorce Mediation Experts

At Families First Mediation, we are a dedicated team of six professionals with over 60 years of combined experience in family law. Our collaborative group includes skilled attorney mediators, a financial mediator, a case manager, and a divorce paralegal, all committed to providing compassionate and effective divorce mediation services in Sunnyvale, California.

Dina Haddad, Esq.

Principal & Founder Attorney-Mediator

Dina Haddad is the founder and principal of Families First Mediation, one of California’s top-rated mediation services.

As an attorney-mediator based in California,  Dina has helped countless couples resolve issues related to divorce, legal separation, child custody, spousal support, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements—amicably and effectively.

She earned her post-doctorate law degree in mediation from the renowned Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution.

Dina has practiced family law at some of the most respected firms in both Southern and Northern California. She brings a strong legal background together with a thoughtful, educational approach to mediation—ensuring both parties feel informed, heard, and empowered to reach lasting agreements.

She has served as Judge Pro Tempore for Personal Property Arbitration in Santa Clara County and is a family law mediator with the Agency for Dispute Resolution (ADR), a premier provider of private dispute resolution services.

Divorce Mediator Samira Amato Families First Mediation in San Jose, Ca

Samira Amato, Esq.

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FFM Financial Mediator Elizabeth Stephens

Elizabeth Stephens

(CDFA, CFF)

Financial Mediator

Senior Paralegal

Deborah Yamashiro

Divorce Paralegal

Case

Katherine Pearson

Divorce Paralegal & Case Manager

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F.A.Q

Virtual Sessions

Our mediation sessions are virtual. Prior to the Covid-19 pandemic, we offered virtual sessions and relied heavily on technology to offer the best services to our clients and keep their costs down. We rely on secure methods to share documents, online calendaring, electronic payment options and other useful integrations. Unlike other divorce practices, you won’t find charges on your invoice for us to file or print your documents to paper.

Divorce mediation costs in Sunnyvale, California, may vary depending upon many factors. For example, how many sessions your mediation may involve, the complexity of the issues involved, and the experience of mediators.

Of course, mediators with high experience and reputations charge more than the less experienced mediators. While the complexities in your case, such as child custody and property division, may also affect mediation costs. Likewise, mediated divorce may involve additional expenses such as filing fees, document preparation and financial advisor costs.

Also, some mediators charge on an hourly basis ($359– $700 per hour). While others may ask you to pay a flat fee for mediation services. So, you can begin your divorce mediation in Sunnyvale after you know the mediators’ experience, qualifications, and fees. Following are examples of flat fees in the divorce mediation process. 

●       Low-cost Mediation: $3,500 – $5,000

●       Standard Mediation: $5,000 – $15,000

●       Complex Mediation: Starts from above $15,000

The number of sessions required in your mediation process may depend upon the complexity of issues, emotional factors, legal complexities, information gathering, and experience of the mediator.  Typically, our couples average 6 sessions.

Mediation is a dispute resolution method to reach an agreement between divorcing spouses. If both spouses disagree on specific terms in mediation, they must go through traditional litigation in family court.

Traditional litigation can have high costs, extended time (in court battles), and increased conflicts. Therefore, individuals dealing with divorce can follow these tips. The following are tips for individuals wanting a successful divorce mediation in Sunnyvale, California.

  • Take breaks when needed

  • Decide your interests and priorities

  • Come prepared and listen actively

  • Choose an experienced and qualified mediator

  • Try to compromise and reach a mutual agreement

  • Gather important information (about assets, debts, and possessions)

  • Stay honest and indulge in open communication during negotiations

  • Keep personal emotions aside and stay calm during divorce negotiations

The number of sessions required in your mediation for simple divorce or complex cases can vary. The more complications there are, the more sessions will be required. Likewise, the couple’s willingness to compromise, complexity, information gathering (process), expert consultations, and mediator experience may also influence the number of sessions. Our Families First Mediations couples average 5–6 sessions. Here is a breakdown of the expected number of sessions based on the case types.

  • • Simple cases: 3–5 sessions
  • • Mid-size cases: 4–8 sessions
  • • Highly complex Cases: 8–12+

The following are the pros and cons of mediation in divorce.
Pros

  • • Confidential
  • • Time effective
  • • Post-divorce stability
  • • Voluntary, informal and flexible
  • • More control over the outcome
  • • Collaborative and peaceful nature
  • • Inexpensive process(both parties can collectively pay the fees of a mediator)

Cons

  • • Can’t work for high conflict cases
  • • Does not work for uncooperative couples
  • • Lacks legal advocacy (mediator just mediates and doesn’t advocate for parties, unless the parties retain consulting attorneys)
  • • Doesn’t work for couples with power imbalance (unless the mediator is able to neutralize)

No, mediation and collaborative divorce are entirely different approaches to divorcing. Both are processes to divorce in California, without stepping into court, yet these options differ in the process, (number of) professionals involved, and costs.

  • • In mediation, both parties have one mediator, while in a collaborative divorce, each party retains his/her attorney.
  • • In mediation, you work directly with the mediator. In collaborative practice, you work in a team approach. The number of professionals in the team varies, but can include a mental health professional and financial expert.
  • • Mediation is generally cheaper than collaborative divorce because collaborative typically requires a team which is more costly based on the number of professionals. Additionally, teams tend to move slower (costing more) than a more streamlined service like mediation.
  • • A mediator in mediation stays neutral. The mediator neither advocates in the court nor for the parties. They just mediate for both divorcing parties. In collaborative divorce, each party’s attorney advocates for its party.