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How to File for Legal Separation in California (Step-by-Step Guide)

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In California legal separation is a court-approved process allowing couples to part their ways while remaining legally married. 

But unlike divorce that ends the marital status, requires residency (of California for at least 6 months and 3 months for county before filing petition) and cooling off period, legal separation is entirely different and explained in light observance of California laws: 

  • Cooling off Period: Divorce has a cooling off period of six months and it starts on the date when the respondent is served with divorce papers. Legal separation has no cooling off-period. 

  • Marital Status: Legal separation retains the marital status. That’s why it does not allow remarriage. 

  • Residency: No residency requirement like divorce. You can start legal separation, even if you’ve entered California today. 

  • Written Agreement: The Agreement of divorce is known as divorce settlement agreement or MSA (marital settlement agreement) while in legal separation it is known as legal separation agreement. 

  • Consent Rule: In divorce matters, absolutely no spousal consent is required to get a judgment as California is a no-fault state. This applies also even if the other spouse opposes or refuses to participate. But legal separation requires both parties consent to get a judgment. 

    • The one exception to this rule is if the respondent has not made a general appearance, the judge would grant judgment by default. 

    • Example: One spouse files legal separation but the other spouse withhold consent, the judgment would not be granted and the other spouse could change the petition to divorce, and in that case the judgment would be entered even if the other spouse disagrees with divorce action. Learn more about the detailed differences between legal separation and divorce.

Filing for Legal Separation Online

Yes, you can file for legal separation online. Visit the online California Superior Court website to confirm before filing the petition as many courts don’t accept electronic filings. 

Courts assist e-filing and self-representation parties through their approved e-filing portal that offers free self-help services — allowing parties to easily generate the necessary forms by answering interview questions and then submit them online. The following county courts accept e-filing for divorce or legal separation action

  • Alameda Superior Court
  • Butte Superior Court
  • Calaveras Superior Court
  • Colusa Superior Court
  • Contra Costa Superior Court

The 7 Step Filing Guide for Couples Seeking Legal Separation in California

7 Step Filing Guide for Couples Seeking Legal Separation in California

Following are the 7 “how to” steps in California for obtaining a legal separation judgment.

Step 1: Consult with a family law expert before initiating

Before you initiate the legal process, take time to consult your family law expert as to whether a legal separation is the right legal action for your matter.

You can also find an online family law expert if you have a busy schedule. They can best guide you on different legal options while understanding your circumstances.

Step 2: From tax filings to proof of assets, gather your all documents

Gather documents that you may require from filing the petition to getting the final court order.

Step 3: Starting the legal separation case

To begin your legal separation case in California, complete and file your petition with the court.

The Petition informs what action you want the family court to take regarding your marriage. A summons serves the purpose of informing your spouse that specific actions have been taken.

At this stage, you have to pay the court’s filing fee, which is currently between $435 and $450 as of the writing of this blog.

However, request a waiver if you cannot afford to pay the filing fee.

Following legal forms may be required to start the case,

  • FL-100: Use this form to file for the petition,

  • FL-110: Use this form to inform the other party about certain actions (spouse),

  • FL-105: Use this form to file a Declaration under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act.

Step 4: Serving your spouse (Respondent) with paperwork

After filing the Petition, the Petitioner serves their spouse, Respondent, with the necessary paperwork.

You can ask a server to deliver documents to the other spouse. You have to make sure that your spouse has received copies of your filed forms properly to complete service. Check out our other blogs and videos about serving documents. Respondent has 30 days to respond to Petitioner’s Petition once received.

The Respondent can agree or disagree with the terms stated in the Petition or suggest other arrangements accordingly. The following forms may be required at this stage:

  • FL-120: Response Form for Marriage and Domestic Partnership,

  • FL-115: Form for Proof of Service of Summons (Family Law-Uniform Parentage-Custody and Support)

Step 5: Sharing the financial information/data

To proceed with financial information sharing, you may require these forms.

  • FL-140: Declaration of Disclosure Form for financial paperwork;

     

  • FL-150: Income and Expense Declaration Form for financial health

     

  • FL-142: Schedule of Assets and Debts Form about ownership

     

  • FL-141: Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure (Form).

You share financial disclosures with your spouse to settle financial issues and make decisions regarding child custody, child support, and parenting plans.

You also file the FL-141 (Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure) with the court at this step

Step 6: Making decision and legal separation agreement

At this stage, couples negotiate on essential terms of separation (including but not limited to marital property division and assets, spousal support, and child custody) and draft a legal separation agreement, which the court requires to finalize your separation. Some spouses may not agree on separation terms requiring a mediator.

Step 7: Finalizing your separation and court approval

If both parties agree on terms of separation, they will submit it to court for approval.

The court does not review the “fairness” of the agreement, but whether legal requirements were completed. If everything has been done properly, the court will grant separation judgment.

After a judge signs the final document, the clerk will file form FL-190 (Notice of Entry of Judgement) confirming that separation is final and mail that to you and your spouse.

You must provide these forms and the envelope for mailing with your legal separation judgment packet.

On the other hand, if both parties don’t agree on issues, both spouses may have to go to trial.

Legal Separation Cost and Timeline

In California and nationally, in the United states the actual cost and timeline of legal separation depends upon how you do it. Whether you mediate or litigate or choose between contested or uncontested options. 

Likewise, case complexity, court backlogs, attorney mediator’s expertise, and collaboration can impact the timelines and cost. That’s why high net worth cases costs more and take longer than average time. However, knowing their dos’s and dont’s could significantly reduce financial cost.

Route
Cost
Timeline
Best Suited To
Collaborative Divorce
Simple Case
  • $5,000 — 10000.
Complex Case
  • 25,000 — 100,000+
Simple Case
  • 7– 10 Mo.
Complex Case
  • 9 — 14 Mo
  • Ideal for collaborative couples.
  • Couples with significant wealth & complex portfolios.
Legal Separation Mediation
Simple Case
  • $3,000 — $8,000.
Complex Case
  • $10,000 —$20,000
Simple Case
  • 3– 6 Mo.
Complex Case
  • 9– 12 Mo
  • Best for people of all socio-economic backgrounds.
  • Empowers couples take control of divorce and privacy.
Contested Legal Separation
Simple Case
  • $15,000 – $30,000
Complex Case
  • $30,000 – $100,000+
Simple Case
  • 12+ Mo
Complex Case
  • 18+ Mo
  • Spouses with complex disputes.
  • Financial abuse and domestic abuse victims.

Top 4 Benefits of Legal Separation in California

Top 4 Benefits of Legal Separation in California

California legal separation is similar to divorce dividing out the couple’s community property, awarding child and spousal support, and ordering child custody. However, the couple is still married.

1. Legal separation divides assets & debts

Legal separation aims to divide the assets, debts, and other properties acquired during the marriage.

Sometimes a couple decides not to divorce. It could be for personal or religious reasons or even for other benefits.

2. Health insurance and social security benefits

Depending on the health insurance provider, you may be able to keep a legally separated spouse as a dependent of your health insurance. However, in a divorce, this is not the case. You cannot cover your divorced spouse as a dependent of your health insurance.

For social security benefits, you may qualify for spousal benefits even if you divorce. 

You will want to discuss your specific case with your family law mediator, attorney or even the Social Security Office.

3. Unlike divorce, legal separation does not dissolve marriage

Couples who think that permanently dissolving marriage is against their religion or belief system can opt for a legal separation option that allows them to stay legally married but have court orders regarding the division of assets, and child custody and support orders.

This allows the couple to abide by their religious, cultural, or personal beliefs.

4. No residential requirement barrier

To file for a divorce in California, you or your spouse must have lived continuously in California for the past six months and at least the past three months in your current California county.

But legal separation neither requires you to meet six months California residency criteria nor three months county residency requirements, which means that you don’t need to be a resident of California before filing for legal separation.

You can start your legal separation filing sooner rather than waiting months. You can then later change it to a divorce, depending on the timing.

However, if you have children, the residential requirements for legal separation may be different. Get a free legal separation consult with ‘Our Family law Experts’ to figure out your next steps. They can help you navigate procedural challenges while optimizing your benefits.

FAQ—file legal seperation Guide

No, California family law does not require individuals to file for legal separation before filing a divorce petition. Also, a legal separation has no residency requirement, unlike divorce.

No, in California, you cannot enter into a second marriage or domestic partnership after a legal separation. To end your first marriage or remarry, you must file for divorce.

Legal separation is not necessarily cheaper than divorce, as both involve the same paperwork, filing procedures, and filing fees.

Whether a legal separation ends up being cheaper or more expensive depends on how you are separating (e.g., contested or uncontested).

Yes, in California, you can convert a legal separation into a divorce at any time, as long as you meet the California residency requirements for divorce. You can even file for divorce while a legal separation judgment is pending or after it has been finalized.